Was my Psychiatrist allowed to say these things to me?

You need to report this psychiatrist for abuse. He is not by law and by his oath allowed to say what he said to you. You need to schedule an appointment with another psychiatrist as quickly as possible. That man has some serious problems that he should be getting professional help for. You are not to blame for this and you didn't deserve what he said. You can go to the site nami.org which is the site for the National Alliance on Mental Illness. On their site you can find the phone number for your local chapter. They are there for support, information that they have the best resources for the help that you need in your area. You should also tell them about this psychiatrist and what he said to you.